The principle of seduction is the same whether you want to seduce your man or you want to seduce any man. It really comes down to hitting that “hidden switch”
that turns the man on. I’m sorry to say here that this specific switch
is different to every man. Sometimes it is not even related to physical
build up of the men, it can be a word, an image in his head, an
expectation. On other times you can trigger it with a simple smile, a
lascivious look (the kind of looks that shows strong sexual desire), a
seemingly coincidental touch.
Above all, “ It is your job to find and explore this secret switch on your man.”
My
male readers will discover that several of these techniques can be used
to seduce a woman as well. Maybe we’re not that different after all.
Are you surprise?
Below are the 10 principles you can you to seduce any man.
1. The Power of Scent
The
scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect
our judgments. The scent is one of the most powerful subconscious
influences that affect our judgments. In a survey 89 % of the men
revealed that the scent can enhance the attractiveness of a women. 55 %
of those polled men went a little further and admitted that they would
get amorous with a women just because of her appealing scent. Do you
believe that? You’d better do! Everybody who has seen or read “Perfume:
The Story of a Murderer” would know what I’m taking about.
The
scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect
our judgments about the other sex. The way you scent is a vital factor
of your success in seduction. You can compare it to pheromones in the
animal world. A woman can enhance her natural pheromones by using
aromatherapy oils like sandalwood, rose, ylang ylang, jasmine and
patchouli. They are known for their aphrodisiac properties. Shakespeare wrote,
that Cleopatra received Marc Anthony on a ship with perfumed sails. The
exotic scent made him fall in love with her immediately. Even that
hopelessly that he gave his life for her.
Use
a perfume that you like but be careful not to overdo it. Use it
sparingly and apply it to your body’s so called pulse points: wrists,
behind your ears, in the bend of your elbow, behind your knees and on
the inside of your ankles. You can also try to spray the perfume in the
air in front of you and walk into the mist. Make your perfume a
recognizable part of you. Make your scent imprinted in his mind.
2. Meeting Point “the where factor”
Believe
me, the “where” is very crucial to your success. Choosing a Sports-Bar
with the Superbowl on may not be crowned with success. A private dinner
with the appropriate romantic ambiance on the other hand will give you
the best chances.
Choose
places where you can minimize distractions (and ideally competition).
You must have his complete attention. Besides, the proper surrounding
can be very stimulative. Never underestimate the power of candlelight
and the adequate soft music.
3. Don’t Reveal it All; Show A Little, But Hide A Little More
There is a certain way how to dress
that drives men crazy. And I certainly don’t mean going slutty. This is
a turn-off for most men. You need to find a compromise between showing
and hiding your womanly qualities. It’s the right combination that makes
the secret. I like women, who enhance certain body regions without
actually showing anything. Steer clear of the obvious. It is very
important that you actually feel sexy. And don’t forget some
killer-lingerie and sexy accessories like bracelets and necklaces.
that drives men crazy. And I certainly don’t mean going slutty. This is
a turn-off for most men. You need to find a compromise between showing
and hiding your womanly qualities. It’s the right combination that makes
the secret. I like women, who enhance certain body regions without
actually showing anything. Steer clear of the obvious. It is very
important that you actually feel sexy. And don’t forget some
killer-lingerie and sexy accessories like bracelets and necklaces.
4. Be Super-Confident
Have
the confidence of a super-model. Be a woman who knows what she wants
and how to get it. Do you know how to do this? But be aware: there is
also a thin red line, if you overdo it, you will most likely look
arrogant instead of confident. You don’t want that. Nobody likes
arrogance. You can start with renewing yourself, get a complete
fresh-up: a new haircut, clothes, start loosing weight. Never
underestimate what a new haircut can do to you. Also watch your posture:
keep a straight back and your shoulders backwards, expose your chest.
Do everything that makes your confidence boost. Men are very impressed
by confidence.
5. Send Signs of Interest
Now
it’s time to spread a little hope that the man have actually a chance
on you. Send him little signs of interest from time to time that make
him come forward:
- Pick some fluff of his jacket (even if there is none!)
- Face him directly and slightly lean forward every now and then
- Show unclenched hands
- Play with your hair or caress other objects. Push your fingers through your hair
- Wet and bite your lips from time to time
Here again: do not overdo it!
Experienced men can read these signs, the unexperienced, well, they feel that something’s going on.
6. Killing Eyes – The French Technique
Start
with almost accidentally sidelong glances. You can follow up with a
direct look. Now something starts what can be described as playful
innocence (someone once said to me that the French girls invented that):
The moment he looks back you instantly lower your eyes and put on an
embarrassed smile. You can even emphasize that some moments later by
looking again, this time longer and then again lower your eyes.
This is flirting without talking (we can learn a lot from the French, when it comes to lovemaking).
7. Touch Him “Accidentally”
When
you reach for something, try to accidentally touch his hand. Don’t make
it too obvious. Also touch him briefly during the conversation to make a
point or when he just made an interesting remark about something.
The
secret is being playful with casually touches now and then. This
creates tension and also a physical connection. And more importantly: it
subconsciously communicates that you’re not interested in “only being
friends”.
8. The Power of Erotic Dancing
This one is short and simple: learn how to dance
in an erotic way and look for an opportunity for him to see. Don’t
underestimate the power of this. Most women love to express themselves
on the dance floor. Why not learning it and doing it the right way?
There are courses on this, or just go to a club, watch and learn.
in an erotic way and look for an opportunity for him to see. Don’t
underestimate the power of this. Most women love to express themselves
on the dance floor. Why not learning it and doing it the right way?
There are courses on this, or just go to a club, watch and learn.
This is very powerful.
9. Anticipation Magic
Now,
here’s a good one. This is a variation of “play hard to get”, which by
the way is a very doubtful thing. If overdone it will harm you more than
being of use. Instead, play a little game called “anticipation”.
Anticipation, excitement, and tension can be a huge turn-on for a man.
Delay the gratification. Make two steps forward, one step back. Create a
strong feeling of dissatisfaction in him. A dissatisfaction which can
only be resolved by having you. It must never seem to be easy for him.
Make
two steps forward, one step back. Contradict Yourself! Use the before
mentioned signs of interest, then suddenly show disinterest, ignore him
for two minutes. Then start again. Two steps forward, one step back.
10. The Secret Ingredient
Now, there is a final ingredient to a successful seduction of a man: He must not feel seduced. He must think that he seduced you, not the other way around. Give him his victory, let him be the hero. Men like that. It gives them a feeling of security.
Conclusion
These are some other useful tips in short:
- Be mysterious and playful
- Awake the explorer in him
- Let him do most of the talking
- Flirt intensively with 90 % body-language and only 10 % with words
- Contradict yourself, confuse him
- Try to make an all-senses-explosion: looks, taste, music, touch, scent
- Take care never to appear too needy.
There you have them, the powerful tips on how to attract any man, get his attention and occupy his brain
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